Bad Humor

Dated: 22 Oct 2008
Posted by Neil Thrussell
Categoiry: Life, Things to Think about
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Today I received a well deserved lesson from a divine heart wide open and truly beautiful person.  This person literally made me stop dead in my tracks and take a look at myself as to what I just was projecting on to her and to the outside world.

I literally was ashamed of myself when it was pointed out what I had done.  Those that really know me, know that in my own mind think I have brilliant and witty humor.  My poor taste in humor was just the start of my lessons for today.  There were lots of lessons rolled up into this for me today and though this person may never speak to me again, I am eternally grateful for her lessons.

I offered this person some really poor humor and it was in really bad taste.  This person didn’t ask for my humor, I just took it upon myself to offer it….  So how’s that for starting out on the wrong footing?  Not only did I offer this bad humor to her once…  No,  No, I had to expound upon to her twice with bad humor…

Now comes the truly amazing part that stopped me dead in my tracks…  She gracefully and politely emailed me back and from a place of love and compassion stated the facts about the encounter we had and how she felt about it.  Without raising her voice and escalating anything, she used love to point out the facts and then allowed me to draw my own conclusions.  It was beautiful… 

My conclusion was that, I really, really had behaved badly.  That I was ashamed of my behavior towards her.  That I owed her an apology…  I owe her and the entire sisterhood and apology…

It was a humbling lesson, it was reminder that in all the lessons I have learnt..  That I still have many, many more to learn….

Thank you divine goddess..